The Effects of Yelling

Why is it that people get so comfortable yelling?

I grew up around it and had toxic partners who yelled and now I'm so over loud people! I just want peace! When it's in your environment you don't notice it. You see everyone doing it and you get used to it! But when you start healing yourself and take yourself out of the environment you start asking yourself “why?” 

Why do people act this why? We have all been there. I have yelled in the past when someone yelled at me. But why do people have a hard time breaking the cycle? I am a sensitive person so it's always bothered me. But now it's to the point where it makes me sick to my stomach. I see parents out in public yelling at their kids. And I think down the road your kid could end up with trauma or in abusive relationships because they think it's okay to be yelled at. While I am writing this, my neighbor is yelling at her friend and they yell back and forth. I ask her why but she said they are not upset but they talk loud. So loud that it vibrates in my apartment. I would rather hear a train or a fire alarm than loud voices. Whether you are used to talking loud or not, you seem angry. Who really wants to be around angry or hostile people? I know I don't! I just do not get why people do this. It makes me have a lack of concentration while I'm trying to focus. It makes me feel like I need to move yet again and I have already moved three times since April. It comes down to a lack of respect or regard for others. Which stems from a lack of respect for themselves. Maybe if we all started to become aware of the things that we say and do to each other we would learn to have more compassion for each other.